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What are the main causes of problem between friends?

The fact on our friends that many people ever have a problem between their friends, such as problem when they have friends and cannot understand “what is our friend’s want”, when we cannot accept their weaknesses, and sometimes we are selfish with our opinion. It's very hard if we will find friend is perfect, many people have weaknesses and strengths, and we should receive it. There are many problem that these can appear between friends; have a new friend, struggle to get a girl or boyfriend, have an unimportant problem, telling with another friend about her or his weaknesses when she or he doesn’t know it.

First, the primary causes of problem between friends are; have a new friend. We are a creature social; we needs friends to become a good social person, but one of the people think that if they have a new friend the old friends will be forgotten. They will think that the new friend is for now, and sometimes will back on the old friend when they have a problem with their new friend, like an adage say that “the peanut forget with its peanut shell”. If they have a new friend there is affect about it, the old friend will feel disappointed with them, and they hate with her. Another friend don’t want to be a friendship again with her.

Second, there is a cause to become friendship will be broken is struggle to get a girl or boyfriend, especially for the man. They will do anything to get a girlfriend although they will compete with his friends, because love will make us blinded. They think that I love her and I must get her, it’s so dangerous for the men, when they like or falling in love with the same girl, because their friendship will be broken. Moreover they will do some evil like a kill and fight with their friend, because the girl, men will do anything that they want. There is affect of problem between friends he will seek a new friend and avoid with his to long time and don’t want to know his.

Third, friendship will be broken when they have an unimportant problem, like an offended too easily. These usually happened for girls, because the girl is a sensitive person. They will easy to angry when they feel uncomfortable with her friends. They will say anything that she wants to give feel bad mood, like a bad ridicule for her friend.  It will make sad and sometimes crying and the friendship will be broken when they don’t grasp it. Be careful when we says anything for our friend, because everyone don’t have the same characteristic, and the effect it is can make broken heart and will feel ok because they feel betrayed.

And the last cause is telling with another friend about her or his weaknesses when she or he doesn’t know it. It will make dislike be a friend with us, because it’s like not reflected about their attitude. When she or he with us she or he looks flat and friendly, but when we are not with them, they will tell it with another friend. It’s impolite because when someone between of you hears it and says it with his or him, they will feel angry and they don’t want to be your friend. Friendship is important for us but when we cannot to protect it we will lose our friend one by one and we don’t have a friend. There are many affects of problem between friends we will feud with them and cannot forgive with them.

In conclusion, have a new friend, struggle to get a girl or boyfriend, have an unimportant problem, telling with another friend about her or his weaknesses when she or he doesn’t know it are the major effect to broke your friendship, there is the opinion from my friend (Ade) she said that the primary cause of problem between friends was had a new friend, and she thought that people felt comfortable with the new friend than with old friend, and one of my friends (Cahyo) said that the expiration of friendship if they struggled to get a girl or boyfriend. He doesn’t want to know, who are you? He will seek for a new friend, because many people in the world that wanted to be his friend. It’s same like a girlfriend, if he lost his girlfriend, he sought a new girlfriend. Rini said that an offended too easily,can be the main cause of problem between friends because another people didn’t have same trait, be careful if we asking and kidding with our friend. Fidad said that the main cause of problem between friends was told with another friend about her or his weaknesses when she or he didn’t know it. He thought that if we had friends we must be received friend’s weaknesses, and tried to appreciate our friend.